#279 Oubaitori (桜梅桃李)
The linguist in me is always intrigued by those words that embody a concept rendering - since they can not be translated easily by a word or two - them somewhat "untranslatable".
Such words include 'hiraeth' (a Welsh word referencing a deep longing for, especially in the context of Wales or Welsh culture) and, somewhat relatedly, 'saudade' (a Portuguese word highlighting an emotional state of melancholy or profound nostalgia and longing for something that or someone who is absent and also encompasses the understanding that one might never encounter the object of longing ever again).
I came across the word 'oubaitori' a few days ago. This concept resonates personally and professionally and serves as a timely reminder as we (during these few days between Christmas and New Year) are prone to reflect upon various aspects of our lives at this time.
In Oubaitori, the concept of and deeper meaning of oubaitori (桜梅桃李) is explained as follows: "The ancient Japanese idiom, Oubaitori, comes from the kanji for the four trees that bloom in spring: cherry blossoms, plum, peach, and apricot. Each flower blooms in its own time, and the meaning behind the idiom is that we all grow and bloom at our own pace."
I appreciate that in the article, Oubaitori, the Japanese philosophical concept inspired by flowers the five steps to practice the art of oubaitori are outlined as follows:
1. Be aware of your inner dialogue
2. Treat yourself with kindness.
3. Cultivate the habit of gratitude.
4. Focus on your potential.
5. Use the success of others as a driving force.
In describing oubaitori, the website concludes with the following: "It acts as a reminder that everyone has their own journey through life, and we should focus on our growth, and not compare ourselves so much to others, and to celebrate your individuality and your uniqueness." This last sentence resonates deeply and is something to hold onto as we reflect on the past twelve months and look forward to the year ahead.